While there is no substitute for sitting down and talking openly and honestly and at great length, questionnaires can be a great help. If for no other reason they can open up subjects and fantasies that you may not have thought about. For some, this can be a far more comfortable method to explain what you want to do (or in some cases, what you definitely don't want) in your session.
Our client's fantasies (see the Salon Kitty's website) are often another good way to get ideas for your sessions. Alternatively you could fill in our check list on the SK website, or My own Personal Questionnaire (which I will email to you on request). The information from the questionaire assists us in creating a very special experience for individuals or couples.