Mistress Amanda Dwyer

Whenever we talk about BDSM sessions, sexual arousal is almost always present. Activities carried out are in many ways a form of foreplay. Many SK visitors claim that sexual intercourse is not the main purpose for their visit but rather a variation to their sexual fantasy. The core of the majority of our sessions is not for the sex itself because pleasure is obtained through the intensity of the interaction between Mistress and her submissive. Activities such as orgasm denial, where the main focus is tease and denial with no sexual release is another form of sexual arousal, the intensity of the denial is often being more powerful than the sexual act itself.

Often a sub wants a Mistress to use him for sex. A Mistress can be very directive and aggressive in this situation, often making sex a forced act (when it actually is exactly what the sub has requested). Anal sex, commands and directions plus the use of sex toys are other elements that make up a session which gives sexual pleasure.

A Mistress may choose to end the session with sex as a natural outcome or reward for her submissive though
normally no Mistress will engage in sex if told it is not wanted or required.