Master wants more than one submissive.
An email from a female submissive covering a sensitive topic.
"My Master and I have been together for 4 months (He is my first Master) and recently He told me He really wants to introduce other subs. (females) i??m afraid it will threaten our relationship and the trust and loyalty we share. i feel hurt and confused as i thought i was giving my all and Ii obviously haven't been. When i asked Him did i do something wrong He said he just thought it would do us good, i should not feel threatened and that my insecurity is ruining my opportunities to extend. What do You think?" `
This predicament is not uncommon and often causes problems.`There are a couple of ways I approach your situation. `Sure it might be a good way to extend your limits however you may not be ready (as I suspect) for this introduction. ``Now, if there is anything I have learnt in my years in the sex industry, it is the majority of males do not want to keep company sexually with just one woman. What I am saying is, your Master's request is not really that unusual.``On the other hand it is not your duty to do things that cross your personal boundaries. You and your Master must have heard of 'mutual consent?' I will admit it is a concern for some within the BDSM scene, who believe the introduction of other players undermines the existing power dynamic within their D/S relationship. From what I have witnessed as a Pro Domme I would have to say this shift in dynamics also occurs in sessions at SK's with the introduction of another player.``Anyway, submissive or not, you should not be expected to enter into a new kind of relationship with other submissives, whether it is your Master's wish or not, without feeling comfortable and agreeable to the idea. ``Be honest, commuicate and tell him how you feel, if he insists I would walk, there are surely other`Masters for you to meet. The right Master for you would never pressure you to do anything you are not comfortable with, or tell you that you are being insecure because you don't want to do something!